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Old 05-07-2008   #1
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Default I guess this is my failing.

Eh.. I can honestly say I've never moderated something based on who posted. I don't look at the sidebar, think "oh, I don't like __, I'll delete it" or "I like ___, I'll let them get away with it". I am however guilty of getting too personally involved (extremely so, I admit) with certain issues on the forum. Especially these recent spamming/flaming issues due to them being rather defamatory. Human nature, human nature..it truly does bring out the worst in people occasionally.
Anyway, I feel this is something I should apologise for. Not my behavior offline, or on MSN, or anything else that's un-forum related, but for having to set an example and not doing it extremely well. It's difficult, surely, to have an internet forum without flaming or badmouthing - very improbable, I'd say (thinking of "<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Godwin's_law">Godwin's Law</a>" which was proved correct earlier today).
Whilst not claiming sole responsibility for this awful cr mess, I do apologise to those who feel they have been treated unfairly (I assure you that this was not my intention) and to those whose friendly forum atmosphere has been disrupted. I hope that in the next few hours the forum will return to its previous state and there will be no more drama, since I feel that the issue has well and truly been covered in detail.
Timelord, I advised you with the intention of fairness and helpfulness, which you unfortunately took the wrong way. While your stance seems to be "it's too late to apologise", driving you away from anywhere was certainly not my original intention and more recently, I deleted and moved several topics. Again, not because 'you posted them', but because I would do the same for any repetitively posted topics. It is the behaviour I despair at, not you on a personal level - I would be more that willing to have a go at being on the forum without bloodshed if you stopped continuously hounding me about being a bully for 'picking on' you alone (ironic, since this could also be considered bullying).
Prom, you're an absolute legend. >D I know that sounds strange to say, or maybe it sounds like a suck-up, but as I think I said on some other post, somewhere, or on my personal ad: I have no grudge against you (although I know you dislike me) and the other issues on Kupika (grapevine)..well, serious interwebz are serious. I get carried away with the serious business of the internet as much as the next no-lifer.

So I guess what I wanted to say in this long post is, I let a lot of people down, I guess. I regret that, but I hope that this post can go at least some of the way towards rectifying the situation.
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Old 05-08-2008   #2
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Really Lyncheh, if you read my post I just made, I think your sarchasm is being misinterpreted. Mine is too, and I think you may have been hurt by some of the stuff I say, apologies for that, not doing it maliciously at all.

I never took it personally, eh, I dont want to sound cold but it just doesn't matter to me.

Likewise try not to take what I say personally, I live most of my life being PC by virtue of having a 'real' job.
So I have probably come close to the edge by the time I make it here, and I have no desire to do anything but be an infant when I get here, seriously, maintaing composure around people who are total a**h**** is difficult, so I might throw tantrums and read what I posted a day later and go wtf?? not trying to be a dick, it comes naturally thank you!

sensitive prom is sensitive, actually I was laughing at that, and catch me on a good day and you'll see I am not bipolar :-D

as far as your dispute with me, well this isn't a chan board where people really are jerk-offs. I would say being OCD about the mod process is not too helpful here.

and Lyncheh, whomping on a guy by decribing him with female attributes would tend to.....hurt some guys, like a game of roshambo might :-D

The title of the topic makes me sad, it's not written in the usual chan memes.
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If the drama is over, emergency lolcats?

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Yes emergency LOLCATS PLZ!!
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Old 05-08-2008   #5
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Failed Lyncheh is failed? :P B~tches don't know bout my failing? Haha. Yeah, ok prom. Eh, the only think I would say I was 'upset' at was the claims about being friends with people only because they had 'power' or something? And hating men, lol. ._. Which isn't true in the slightest, really..

Oh, I have to dash, I'll finish this later.
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Old 05-08-2008   #6
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What I said to Lyncheh was unacceptable, and I am really sorry. As I am to everyone who I hurt and annoyed.

I think I dragged it out too much and made something out of nothing.

I hope things can go back to the way they were after the disruption I caused. I am really, truly sorry and if I could change it, I would.

I don't know what else to say but sorry. I put friends in a difficult position and was really horrible towards Lyncheh. As I was to Sanyu, bringing her up in it.

In future, I will try my best to keep my mouth shut. It's just annoying when you have to stay to strict guidelines about what to write. But, you can do whatever you like to my posts in the future, 'modding' a forum is hard work and I make it harder. Your just doing your jobs.

Once again, I am sorry.
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Old 05-08-2008   #7
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Hmm, I am glad that I have not been 'lynched' by certain people as it were... I posted it later at night than usual, so I'm also glad to see that it pretty much made sense (lol, not that 9:42pm is especially late, but you get the idea).
Today I realised two principles that I should live by, but don't. They're pretty much principles that everyone should live by, regardless of religion:
1) Only do to others what you would wish to be done to you.
2) If someone strikes you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also.

Christian teachings, granted, but when applied by everyone, how much better would everything actually be? The last one is the one that confuses some people - 'if someone attacks you, let him do it again'. It sounds strange, and these past few weeks, I certainly haven't been the greatest demonstrator of this, but it's relatively simple. Not easy, but simple: you let people attack you. Because then, you have the moral high ground. You are in the right until you fight back. Why did I realise this today, after all the trouble? Lol, because that's life, I guess. I'm just one of these people who realises things AFTER I need to.

Oh, and prom: b~tches don't know 'bout my OCD, amirite? Will bear in mind, y/y? And I don't mean pedobear. CHAN GIRL DESUDESUDESU~ :P
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So... Um... Are we okay now?

I understand if you don't wanna know...
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Default Re: I guess this is my failing.

Originally Posted by Timelord
So... Um... Are we okay now?

I understand if you don't wanna know...
Originally Posted by Lyncheh
It is the behaviour I despair at, not you on a personal level
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