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Old 09-11-2008   #1
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Default Why do most guys like "sluts"

This post was taken from paigee's diary entry on K-com:
http://kupika.com/diarypage.php?id=f48c725d433882nw26jz

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Why are girls who sleep around called sluts, but guys who sleep around called studs?
And why do women enforce this stereotype?

I mean when a woman sleeps around she is called a slut and looked down upon by men
and women. Men love her because they can use her and women hate her for looking so
cheap.

But when men sleep around men look up to him for having so many ladies. And even
more appalling women find him sexy too. I mean how common is it for girls, and not
just trashy girls, but even good girls, date and get into relationships with bad
boys or studs? Why do women do this to themselves?

But why does society as a whole hold these stereotypes? Whats the difference between
a man who sleeps around and a girl who sleeps around? Why does the stud deserve
respect and the slut disrespect?
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Old 09-11-2008   #2
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*objects to OP saying 'women enforce this stereotype' as if to say..all of them do* :|

All I can really give as a reason is, because society is messed up. And I actually can't wait for the end of the world.
Hahaha, yes, I just said that. Maybe you all think I'm insane. But think about how screwed up everything is. ;;

Not too long ago it was a disgrace to your family if you got pregnant/got a girl pregnant as a teenager.
Now it's accepted. Even encouraged.(I don't mean teen pregnancy is directly encouraged, more than in teen magazines, it's, '10 HOT SEX TIPS' and so on). X_X And I just think that's terrible. It means nothing any more.

So for me, I don't like "studs". Or "bad boys". They are not to be looked up to. I don't know why people do look up to them.

I guess I just have old fashioned views. *sigh* :\
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Old 09-11-2008   #3
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Default Re: Why do most guys like "sluts"

My opinion on this subject is that woman are worse than men.
If women sleep with a bunch of men, they are sluts.
Good, they're getting what they deserve. If they are going to act like a playtoy for the men, they deserve it.

Now, men can sleep with a bunch of women, the women who have NOT been with him want to be with him. They crave to be with him because, gee, he must be good at sex! And God forbid we wait until MARRIAGE like the bible says!

Yes, I am a proud virgin.
Waiting until at least college ((promised mi padre)), when I'll do it with my boyfriend and most likely future husband. ^.^
I am not going to be one of those sluts who sleep with a bunch of men, then complain when I get pregnant.
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Old 09-11-2008   #4
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For some reason, this is making me think of lions with a harem of lionesses.
Like, the male will mate with as many possible females as possible, but the female is expected to stay with that one male.
Correct me if I'm wrong, I'm no master of animals' mating habits.
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But my view is that anyone who sleeps around is a slut, end of story.
I wouldn't be with a guy if they had had like, 20 partners, same goes for girls.
I think the reason society tends to frown upon promiscuous women more than men is the long-enduring belief that women are nothing more than property to their men, and for a woman to go against her owner is much worse than an owner to stray from his property.
Not saying that I support this, but that's just what I'm getting from it.

To answer the question posed in the thread title, not all guys like easy girls, but the guys that do like easy girls are the ones who, most of the time, have no personality other than an utter horndog and are trying to compensate for this lack by being a big man among his peers.
-shrug-
I'm pulling this outta my ass, so yeah.
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Default Re: Why do most guys like "sluts"

Originally Posted by Lou
I'm pulling this outta my ass, so yeah.
Ha ha, very nice, Lou. x)

I definitely do not see a guy who I KNOW has had multiple partners at all attractive. I call him a manwhore and that is that.
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Old 09-11-2008   #6
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Totally argree
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Old 09-11-2008   #7
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Er... T_T

Okay, so let me say this... I don't find those types of guys very attractive or good or whatever at all. u_u As a matter of fact, I DESPISE people like that who think they're cool because of how many girls they have. @_@ They really disgust me. My ex-boyfriend was like that. u_u That's why he's... well, an ex-boyfriend. XD He had a disgusting view of how "awesome" he was because of all his girlfriends, and nobody liked that attitude of his. Especially not me.

As for why some people "like" girls like that, the ones who go out with anyone or act trashy, the reason is obvious: they have no dignity. o.o I'm serious. They're really easy to go out with and they'll do things that any other girl with any self-worth would never do. @_@ The girls who dress in revealing ways and go out with anyone are just so easy for them to get a hold of. The boys think, "Oh, her clothes sure expose a lot, AND she'll go out with anyone!" like it's some kind of prize. It's very easy for them -- not a challenge. That's usually a lazy way to think, but they probably are lazy if they don't want to approach a girl normally and become attached to her and be her boyfriend like how it usually works. And the girls who have dignity are definitely a challenge since they don't go out with just anyone and actually have STANDARDS. -_- These boys hate doing challenges and just want someone that's easy to get. But in the end, I think these girls are just getting used and allowing themselves to be used. They brought it upon themselves. ;O

And I also resent the fact that it's implied that ALL girls enforce this. @_@ Because I sure don't! I can't stand girls or boys like that. Every bit of that behavior disgusts me. There's no dignity or real love there. But I do believe that a lot of girls nowadays DO enforce that behavior -- but not all! You see all the music videos with girls dancing next to the boys, and they're barely wearing anything. They wear so little and dance in such a way (along with the song's lyrics which are usually bad and talking about these girls) that you feel really uncomfortable watching such a thing. ;O It feels like you're watching something bad -- which you are. These girls are totally okay with degrading themselves as objects, so it makes other girls think it's okay. When I honestly believe it's not. u_u They're letting themselves be treated as objects and acting like all they are is something that's just meant to be pretty and looked at. The girl has no part in the video except to dance and look trashy and "attractive" to the men.

And then you have the videos where it looks like those girls were thrown in a vat of grease. D: They're all shiny and stuff for some reason. Apparently the "best thing ever" to most boys is some girl with a fake-n-bake tan, an almost non-existent tiny bikini, tons of make-up and let's not forget the key ingredient: being all greasy and shiny. I bet when the video is done being shot, they slip and fall everywhere. XD But really -- look at society and videos these days. It's implied everywhere about what girls are supposed to be to be considered "attractive" or "beautiful". Music videos that lots of men like have girls with little to no personality just dancing around looking "pretty", if you'd even call it that. ;|

And exactly as Lou said: these girls have little to no personality and try to make up for it by getting attention from the opposite gender. XD; They strut around in tiny outfits and tons of make-up, going out with any boy (it's a bit sad that they want attention from anyone THAT badly) all for some attention. If they developed a personality then they wouldn't have to degrade themselves and conform to these horrible standards to get the attention they crave. They're... what do you call it? Easy. I think that's the word for it. o.o That's basically my point. XD
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Originally Posted by noodlespirit
Ha ha, very nice, Lou. x)

I definitely do not see a guy who I KNOW has had multiple partners at all attractive. I call him a manwhore and that is that.
Oh wow I totally missed that.
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No pun intended, 'course.
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Old 09-12-2008   #9
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I would promptly kick the ass of and disown any of my friends if I found out they cared so little about dignity. A girl I know who used to be my friend has 2 kids and she's not even 18. She had her first kid at 15. Her second on the way isn't even to the same guy.

As someone who tends to go in and out of asexual phases often, I don't understand why sex is something that people are willing to throw everything away for. Their dignity, their purity, possibly the next 18 years of their life in the worst case scenario. Actually, no, I think the worst case scenario would be someone desperate hooking up over the internet and running into a rapist/murderer. That could have easily been me a few years ago. Even having gone through it, I honestly don't understand it. A couple of times may be thrilling, spontaneity is fun, but if your current group of friends is not spontaneous and are getting boring then you'll find something new to entertain you. I just wish people would use their brain and common sense when looking for that thing...

I don't care how many people my partner has been with as long as 1) they're all past partners, not present; 2) their track record in emotional attachment isn't bumpy; and, 3) they don't have STDs lol
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I think some guys say they have had tons of girls when really they are still virgins,but are scared to say so. I think the reason why women who roll in the hay tons of times are called sluts is because women are the 'weakest' since females give birth, what's worser then a women who is like I'm going sleep around and not care that i might have a baby. I have not had it yet i don't choose to any time soon..since teen guys mostly think with a certain place.
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