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Old 09-13-2008   #11
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Default Re: Why do most guys like "sluts"

I'm going to agree with the majority of responses here and say that I don't find 'studs' attractive in any way. But yeah, society is messed up. I'm 13 and people looked surprised when I say I've only had one real boyfriend. There are three girls in my form at school having a race to see who can have sex first. I think it's disgusting. I think guys like people like that because generally [and obviously there are loads of people who aren't like this] they like to think that they are superior to women. So for a girl to subject herself to them is a turn on xD

But not everyone who has sex underage is a slut. I have a friend who is 15, and she slept with a guy that she had been with for seven months, and he had proposed to her. They split up after about a year but I wouldn't consider my friend a slut for sleeping with him. It's not like she did it for the sake of it.

And it pisses me off when you get called a slut for wearing hot pants. Or a low cut top. I hate it when people assume that you want sex just because what you're wearing is revealing. I'll admit to wearing stuff like that and I'm sorry that I have enough confidence not to cover up every inch of skin.
And because I'm running out of relevant things to say, I'm almost done xD
But yeah, I don't judge people because they've slept around or whatever. It's their life and they can do what they want with it. As long as they haven't and don't intend to hurt me or my friends in any way, I can be friends with someone like that.

I'm sorry that was so random and slightly off topic O.o My brain is like dead x]
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Old 09-13-2008   #12
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In my oppinion its cuz guys are sex addicted assholes!! Only like 2% of guys actually fully respect girls decisions about sex and when they'll have it!! The other 98 % couldn't care less about the girl's feelings as long as they can get some sex out of it!! Well thats how the retarded studs think anyways!! And even lots of non studs think that way too!!

The world is just fucked up!! When a father is talking to his son and the son says "dad I just had sex with a girl and she gave me a blow job" The father will say "good for you son I am very proud of you! I hope you fucked her hard!! :]" If His daughter says "Dad I just had sex with a boy" He will say "I WILL KILL THAT BOY FOR WHAT HE DID TO YOU!! HE WILL NEVER SEE THE LIGHT OF DAY!! WHERE THE FUCK IS HE??" The father won't even think about the fact that his son had sex with a girl who's father wouldn't like it either. He simply doesn't care about the other girl!! Im not saying all men are totally evil...im saying they can't be trusted when it comes to sex.

Sluts should just stop havin sex before they get pregnant at age ten! >.<

Well there is also another side of sluts. They could just have sirous problems and have sex to forget about them. They could have been taught that their only use was sex. That would be pretty depressing!! And thats why people shouldn't fuck sluts! They should show them that the world does have another use for them.... or they could just simply like sex too much.

so I guess there are two sides to sluts and retarded studs!!...well there is no other side to a retarded stud...hes just a fucking perv!! But I guess there is nothing to do about any of this. All we can do is just sit here and let it happen cuz its the people's decishion! If both the girl and the guy want to have sex with eachother i guess it should be fine...
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Old 09-13-2008   #13
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Phew... what happened to the 60's...

I don't identify as a 'stud'. I have, however, had sex (in the sense of sexual relations rather than penetrative sex) with people who I'm not in a relationship with.

And here's the kicker. I have and do romantically love multiple people, physically (in some cases) and mentally. All of the friends I love and who love me too, know about this, and are fine with it. Some have even done the same thing with their own love-life.

I call it nonmonogamy¹, and it essentially means that instead of a relationship with someone you just have a very close friendship (possibly with benefits, though that is by no means essential). They don't call me their boyfriend, I don't call them my boyfriend/girlfriend. No rules, no boundaries, besides mutual consent. No break-ups, no obligations, not even a requirement for mutuality (loving someone who doesn't love me back is still pleasurable for me. If I'm able to talk to them and appreciate the beauty of their mind, that's a wonderful thing in itself). Just pure adoration of the other person.

Does that make me a slut? Perhaps. Don't let it be said, however, that I don't have respect for myself or other people.

As for sex. If you judge people on their sexuality (meaning the way they conduct their sexual relationships), how is that different from homophobia? It's not, except being labelled a homophobe has more stigma attached. What people do with eachother is their own business, and if both people enjoy it and adequate contraception is used I see no reason why anyone would have any qualms about it. Be glad we don't exist in an age when female sexual frustration was seen as a disorder (and that, my friends, is how the vibrator came into existence. You know it was originally used by doctors on patients diagnosed with so-called 'female hysteria'? Look it up, it's an enlightening story about attitudes to female sexuality).

¹ It actually takes a fair while to explain in full, this is just a summary.
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Old 09-13-2008   #14
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In my oppinion its cuz guys are sex addicted assholes!! Only like 2% of guys actually fully respect girls decisions about sex and when they'll have it!! The other 98 % couldn't care less about the girl's feelings as long as they can get some sex out of it!! Well thats how the retarded studs think anyways!! And even lots of non studs think that way too
Not all guys are like 'i don't give a crap about women i just want to have at it' I think it depends on how they were rised. Just think when they where little boys they might of had a dad who had many 'friends' so they grew up with the thinking 'women are just toys' What about men who think the only way to not feel like dirt is to have at it as many times as they can?
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Old 09-14-2008   #15
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Originally Posted by Lyncheh
*objects to OP saying 'women enforce this stereotype' as if to say..all of them do* :|

All I can really give as a reason is, because society is messed up. And I actually can't wait for the end of the world.
Hahaha, yes, I just said that. Maybe you all think I'm insane. But think about how screwed up everything is. ;;yeah it is!!

Not too long ago it was a disgrace to your family if you got pregnant/got a girl pregnant as a teenager.
Now it's accepted. Even encouraged.(I don't mean teen pregnancy is directly encouraged, more than in teen magazines, it's, '10 HOT SEX TIPS' and so on). X_X And I just think that's terrible. It means nothing any more.

So for me, I don't like "studs". Or "bad boys". They are not to be looked up to. I don't know why people do look up to them.

I guess I just have old fashioned views. *sigh* :\
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Old 09-15-2008   #16
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listen man and women are graded by sex because females are the lowest in the battle of the sexes chain so when a man does something its ok cuase hes higher on the chain but when a woman does the same thing its degradeing because they are supposed to do as the man tells them and be a slave to man instead of haveing thair own personalities and so when a woman feels cheap she goes and does something like a man and a man does take control over her and dont respect her whatsoever and then they feels they have to do well my point is society is fucked up and so is the man and woman chain
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Old 09-15-2008   #17
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Punctuation. I'd like your post so much more if you used it.
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Old 09-15-2008   #18
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Default Re: Why do most guys like "sluts"

Originally Posted by Sanyu-?
Punctuation. I'd like your post so much more if you used it.
Agreed.

"And it pisses me off when you get called a slut for wearing hot pants. Or a low cut top. I hate it when people assume that you want sex just because what you're wearing is revealing. I'll admit to wearing stuff like that and I'm sorry that I have enough confidence not to cover up every inch of skin. "
Yes! Thank you! I was wearing workout pants last Wednesday, and everyone is still calling me a slut. It's like, what the hell, so what if wear tight clothes.



When a girl sleeps around, guys like her. Girls are usually either jealous, or disgusted.
When a guy sleeps around, girls like him. Guys are usually either jealous, disgusted, or proud.
This is, of course, a major generalization. But, the situations are practically equal. Granted, the girls may be called a slut, but guys can also be disregarded like the girl.

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Old 09-21-2008   #19
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...I am a guy and I think all this "Man tops woman on the chain" crap is total BULL.....okay so sometimes we're a little bigger by gentetics 15% more muscle mass.....thats no grounds to think that on sex is better than the other.....personally this world is almost completely SEXIST in my eyes.....I know not everyone says guys are better.....cause in my school the world [i]revolves around relationships in middle school....if the girl breaks up with the guy its just fine but the guy is automaticly hated when he tries to say something but when the guy breaks up with the girl the sky must be freakin fallin
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Originally Posted by Serpent
...I am a guy and I think all this "Man tops woman on the chain" crap is total BULL.....
Tell this to centuries of traditionalism and patriarchy. That's what the 'top of the food chain' refers to, if I am right.

Of course the world is sexist. It always has been, and acknowledging it in any way is differentiating female from male; even if it's positive light, making that difference is still sexism. Unless you're talking about biology, I guess... Different bodily things are just fact ^^;
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