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Old 08-11-2008   #1
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Default Society causes people to feel bad

In this bucked up society throwing up your pop tarts and being so skinny that you fit in a lock is sexy yeah and PIGS can FLY. I happen to be a plus sized girl and it really pushes my buttons that to get a 'man' you have to be really skinny. I just want to smack society in the head really hard for making people feel bad about them selfs. Society has not made me throw up just to be what they call normal. I think there is no normal it is something society uses to call people who they think are okay. Some people think that if some one is skinny then they must hate other people not true Eating disorders knows no one type of people.Feeling bad about ones self is the same thing.If some one wants to drop some pounds it might be that they would feel better about them selfs or the might die if they do.If those two things where not true then things like curves and weight watchers would not be here.I think you should only lose weight if you or your doctor said or thinks you do,not because your boyfriend or Society says your 'ugly'or 'no one wants you.'
There are diets that say you can't have what you like at all, weight watchers says in moderation just like you should not drink 45 beers.What are we telling young girls? that they need to throw up all the time in order to get a man? What about young boys? that they should bully their girlfriend/wife into losing weight? There might be some 9 year old girl throwing up right now because society thinks that is okay.Well i happen to think it is very sick and twisted and society's view needs to be changed so we don't lose people to this sick world like that.What i find is so dumb is we are causing the problem of obese people/kids with are mega sized foods like popcorn etc and total lack of fitness,so we to need to think.What i find sad is that there are kids who are all ready over weight! that is such a good gift when they get older we should just make them a sign that says 'your fat so just start over eating and throwing up now.' For pete's sake is that what the world is come two? a 6 year old who is obese? Don't worry there are might be some 4 year olds getting stoned right now.Some one who is born slender envys some one who is not slender,i find that kind of intringing-that we envy some one because some thing on their body is what we want.I really love that a plus sized girl named Whitney Thompson won America's Next Top model. To me that means changes will happen.

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Old 08-11-2008   #2
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Default Re: Society causes people to feel bad

As a pale girl in a tanned world, I can relate to this. :P
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Old 08-11-2008   #3
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All us pale people to the batcave~
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Old 08-11-2008   #4
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Default Re: Society causes people to feel bad

Originally Posted by Lyncheh
As a pale girl in a tanned world, I can relate to this. :P
Go pale people!
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Old 08-11-2008   #5
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yeah, I agree. Get this. In 7th grade we had to do this stupid BMI test in gym. We recorded our weight and hight and age, went to the computer typed it in and got our results. Mine said 'at risk for being overwieght' What the heck? We were, and are, still growing first of all. You got to count how much of that weight is muscle too. And I am not what they would call a plus sized girl. I'm average. So yeah, society is stupid, and cruel. No wonder people want to throw up their meals.
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Old 08-11-2008   #6
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Yeah, being "plus size" has really bothered me.
People always giving rude remarks to me in school.
It sickens me how ignorant people can be,
and its even worse to see the girls who make fun of me
cry about being overweight when they look like twigs.

I wish I could stand up for myself and tell everyone how freaking stupid
they are.
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Old 08-11-2008   #7
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Hey, less "twig" comments, please. I happen to be one of these twigs. ;|
I don't think I'm overweight, more like hilariously underweight, but I'm not "following the crowd" by being thin - it's just who I am. I really struggle to put on weight, even when I eat tons of crap.
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Old 08-11-2008   #8
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Yeah, some people are born really skinny. Some people can eat all the sweets they want and never become overweight. Some people are overweight at birth and can't loose it, but it's not their fault. So, obviously it can be a natural thing too so I don't see why people should care so much about it.
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Originally Posted by Lyncheh
Hey, less "twig" comments, please. I happen to be one of these twigs. ;|
Sorry xD
It just, these girls are thin, and pretty. and they think so little of themselves. :C
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Not all girls that are skinny feel good about them selfs,not all plus size girls feel bad about them selfs.
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