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hina · 04-14-2009

This post was taken from MorbidLittleParasite's diary entry:

Drama and how to avoid it --> click to read the full text

In essence:

It Takes Two To Tango.
What I’m basically saying is that drama is only sparked when the drama maker is
replied to at the beginning and is continued to be replied to. In an immature
sense it's sort of like contraception. The egg is bassically the drama sparker, the
sperm comes to "attack" the egg thus creating a full on drama.
If someone says something that’s disrespectful, just ignore them. Don’t reply
to them. If they send you into a fit of blind anger, try to get away and relax.
No contact = a condom to that analogy I badly explained..

Also respect.
Given respect is gained respect.

There are rude people in Kupika, yes, some people will be mean to you, make you angry, etc. Some people will try to make you respond to their remarks. It's their nature.

Well, that's just what real life's like. In life, you will encounter bad people too, and you cannot expect someone else to "take care of them". You decide what to do with these bad people. Will you confront them? Or just walk away, and do your own thing?

Never wrestle with a pig. You both get dirty, but the pig likes it.
If you react/respond to these bad people, you will stoop to their level. Don't. Just move on and find other people who are worthy of your friendship.

It Takes Two To Tango.

In a similar vein:
http://kupika.net/kupichat/1431-they...guage-bad.html
http://kupika.net/kupichat/1025-virt...-harmless.html
http://kupika.net/random-discussion/...eed-troll.html

Sanyu · 04-14-2009

Further reading in addition to this thread:
http://kupika.net/kupichat/1431-they...guage-bad.html
http://kupika.net/kupichat/1025-virt...-harmless.html

Yup.

Plushi · 04-14-2009

Never wrestle with a pig. You both get dirty, but the pig likes it.

Whatwhat?

noodlespirit · 04-14-2009

I love the sex analogy. Go figure, in our day and age, someone would use sex as means to describe drama. x)

Lyncheh · 04-14-2009

Originally Posted by Plushi

Whatwhat?

He just said your mom's a pig and you like it dirty.

If you argue with someone, you're both wasting your time and fighting, but the troll likes it, so it's pointless.

I know you're obsessed with being dirty, but I don't think that's what hina meant.

noodlespirit · 04-14-2009

I completely agree with the whole do-not-encourage-the-drama-maker thing.

But I still think that the sex analogy is epic.

Plushi · 04-14-2009

Originally Posted by Lyncheh

I know you're obsessed with being dirty, but I don't think that's what hina meant.

Not obsessed, I just have my moments.

Also, I love the dramafags, they're fun to mess around with.

Also Lynch, remember the sneeze-fetish forums?

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noodlespirit Kupikan Join Date: May 2008 Location: Webkinz World Posts: 1,550	I love the sex analogy. Go figure, in our day and age, someone would use sex as means to describe drama. x) __________________ R.I.P. Nickolai Alaric This TwoKinds Fan Will Miss You

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noodlespirit Kupikan Join Date: May 2008 Location: Webkinz World Posts: 1,550	I completely agree with the whole do-not-encourage-the-drama-maker thing. But I still think that the sex analogy is epic. __________________ R.I.P. Nickolai Alaric This TwoKinds Fan Will Miss You Last edited by noodlespirit; 04-14-2009 at 05:29 PM.