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Old 04-14-2009   #1
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Default Drama and how to avoid it

This post was taken from MorbidLittleParasite's diary entry:

Drama and how to avoid it --> click to read the full text

In essence:
It Takes Two To Tango.
What I’m basically saying is that drama is only sparked when the drama maker is
replied to at the beginning and is continued to be replied to. In an immature
sense it's sort of like contraception. The egg is bassically the drama sparker, the
sperm comes to "attack" the egg thus creating a full on drama.
If someone says something that’s disrespectful, just ignore them. Don’t reply
to them
. If they send you into a fit of blind anger, try to get away and relax.
No contact = a condom to that analogy I badly explained..

Also respect.
Given respect is gained respect.
There are rude people in Kupika, yes, some people will be mean to you, make you angry, etc. Some people will try to make you respond to their remarks. It's their nature.

Well, that's just what real life's like. In life, you will encounter bad people too, and you cannot expect someone else to "take care of them". You decide what to do with these bad people. Will you confront them? Or just walk away, and do your own thing?

Never wrestle with a pig. You both get dirty, but the pig likes it.
If you react/respond to these bad people, you will stoop to their level. Don't. Just move on and find other people who are worthy of your friendship.

It Takes Two To Tango.



In a similar vein:
http://kupika.net/kupichat/1431-they...guage-bad.html
http://kupika.net/kupichat/1025-virt...-harmless.html
http://kupika.net/random-discussion/...eed-troll.html
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Old 04-14-2009   #2
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Further reading in addition to this thread:
http://kupika.net/kupichat/1431-they...guage-bad.html
http://kupika.net/kupichat/1025-virt...-harmless.html

Yup.
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Old 04-14-2009   #3
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Never wrestle with a pig. You both get dirty, but the pig likes it.

Whatwhat?
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Old 04-14-2009   #4
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I love the sex analogy. Go figure, in our day and age, someone would use sex as means to describe drama. x)
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Old 04-14-2009   #5
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Originally Posted by Plushi View Post
Whatwhat?
He just said your mom's a pig and you like it dirty.

If you argue with someone, you're both wasting your time and fighting, but the troll likes it, so it's pointless.

I know you're obsessed with being dirty, but I don't think that's what hina meant.
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Old 04-14-2009   #6
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I completely agree with the whole do-not-encourage-the-drama-maker thing.

But I still think that the sex analogy is epic.
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Old 04-14-2009   #7
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Originally Posted by Lyncheh View Post
I know you're obsessed with being dirty, but I don't think that's what hina meant.
Not obsessed, I just have my moments.

Also, I love the dramafags, they're fun to mess around with.

Also Lynch, remember the sneeze-fetish forums?
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Now what if you just like messing with people like that. There are people who will just jump into conversations on FT and AnonymousPost with really rude things, and I just ADORE messing with them.
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Hina is so cool!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Old 07-11-2011   #10
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Hina is so cool!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
suck up^^^^^
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