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Old 08-03-2010   #131
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I have been called ugly, fat, and many other
cruel names. You just need to learn to live with
it. It will happen everyday of your and my life.
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Old 08-04-2010   #132
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Most of us are targeted by senseless attacks of puny members of this society, based on insults to our exterior image, and whatever they find unusual on the inside. I, personally, have trained my mind so it doesn't affect me. We shouldn't take to heart the insults we know are simply being spat at us. Other people don't know us like we know ourselves, at least in my case, and I think it is extremely rude to wound somebody else just for the twisted pleasure it gives. Coming from perfectly normal, ~social~ people, yanno', who should have manners, morals, and ideals.
If one has a situation, an issue, perhaps a disliking for somebody, one shouldn't take it to the level of toying with their emotions. Of course, almost no one ponders about this nowadays. Calling me ugly or calling you fat, would mean absolutely nothing for the kids of this generation.
I speak against myself, but really, it's rather ominous to watch as it continues to degrade, and degrade, and degrade.
If I had to say it, then I would tell everyone how they didn't fit my cuppa' tea, because I find everyone ugly recently. Even admirably, remarkably stunning identities. I can only find someone beautiful if their minds are beautiful. I have gone blind to outer beauty, unless we are speaking of lust for others. Some people are more sensible, more self-conscious, more scared and fragile to these insults. It embarrasses them, it ridicules them if said in public, it tears their self-confidence. I don't falter unless you bring up very, very sordid facts and make relations.
However, most girls I know, do.
This happens to females more than it does to males. Yet frankly, and really, I believe any man with a decent, individual personality, would too, be affected. As you mature and age, you learn to deal with this, be it the simple or difficult way. It often changes us. I'd advise anyone who was or is being targeted by this, to never show fear. Do what you must, but never show them fear. If you are frail before those who wish to harm you, it'll become easier for them to do so with the passing time. Don't let them have an intimidating grip on you, and do not tolerate any threats. You needn't use profanity or talk back excessively, just stay firm, be bold and muster a little courage to face those who insult you. Practice is essential.
And I swear, one doesn't have to be tall nor slim to kick some goddamn ass.
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Old 08-04-2010   #133
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"And I swear, one doesn't have to be tall nor slim to kick some goddamn ass"

I completly agree!
Just make yourself feel good,you're the only one that matters!(to you)
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Old 08-05-2010   #134
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This got me thinking a lot on the subject of when people call you ugly and now I am going to try to be stronger against insults and try not to take everything, personally like I usually do!
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Old 10-13-2010   #135
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Originally Posted by Childhood View Post
This got me thinking a lot on the subject of when people call you ugly and now I am going to try to be stronger against insults and try not to take everything, personally like I usually do!
ok good 4 you ) -hugs-
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Old 12-11-2011   #136
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People just call you ugly because they know that you are more beautiful then them and they want to be mean.
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Old 12-12-2011   #137
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^ Not always true. People who insult aren't always jealous. They do want to be mean, though.
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Old 12-14-2011   #138
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That's how I look at it. Sometimes people need to deal with it.
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Old 01-14-2012   #139
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I agree with Sanyu.
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